The first time Kay and I were in bed together she had a simple request, ‘spank me.’ I will admit to being very naïve at the age of 26.
This was before the Internet and all the information it would eventually provide. I stumbled with issues involving jealousy as well as a lack of knowledge about kinkier aspects of sexual relations. In retrospect, Kay seemed to have entered our relationship with more than a passing knowledge of those relations, but that was something I didn’t think much about back then.
Still, we enjoyed our sexplortation, mostly involving mild BDSM situations. Through the years we experimented with toys and props to add excitement and it seemed to work out well. I was a bit concerned about how things would go when after we were married we found out Kay was pregnant. I knew that it was very possible that with a child to care for and the seemingly unexplainable changes women go through afterwards that our sex life would suffer. To my surprise and relief it didn’t seem to suffer in the least. At least at first.
The turning point seemed to be when Kay went back to school to get her college degree. With the time spent studying and working part time, I knew there was little chance of any play time. I knew this and accepted it, feeling confidant that once she began her new career things would shift back to normal.
After graduation and a move to a location that afforded us both employment in our chosen fields, we settled in. I tried very hard to be patient with Kay. I knew her new job was very demanding and overwhelming to her at times. I never pressured her about sex or anything else for that matter. I was intent on giving her space and allowing her to do as she w... Läs hela novellen
